My son’s freshman year at our new Catholic HS started fine, save for the fact he wasn’t interested in any girls, and especially the this one classmate being forward to him. To make a long story short, our family went to see her play volleyball. She cheerfully acknowledged he was there, and continued to wave or catch glimpses of him (the team won big, so she didn’t get much playing time. After the game, he congratulated her on the win and we left.
A week after I receive a phone call from her dad that he feels my son has inappropriate feelings towards her, that he’s approaching her too much and making her feel uncomfortable with his staring. They have 1 class and homeroom together. He sits behind her. Admin checked out allegations, and nothing my son did was off the mark. However, she started rumors that he tried to sexually assault her (she was suspended from an important state volleyball game). Now, she’s insulted, kicked, screamed and cried (when she snuck over to see the girl he was taking to a dance). The last straw was that she’s gotten a friend to take nudies of her to show my son. He was revolted. There’s about 50 more incidents I can write about, but you get the picture that this girl has not given up.
Since the school seems to be blowing off a lot of this, my husband and I are going to have him transferred. His grades are falling because of the stress. Does anyone have any ideas? He does see a Catholic therapist who is helping us through this. Thank you & God bless.