Hey, I’m not sure if this is the place to talk about dating advice, but I thought I would give it a shot nonetheless. (if this isn’t the appropriate place, please let me know!)
So there’s this one girl that I really like, but have no idea if she likes me back or anything. Last weekend we both were pretty “flirty” with each other, but the circumstances were a bit auspicious. For one, we both had a few drinks (myself more than a few) at one of my fraternity’s parties. Secondly, we wound up talking at her place after the party (no, nothing happened).
Normally, I wouldn’t think twice about just talking to her and asking her out. But she happens to be the sister of one of fraternity brothers. He’s cool with me dating her and all, but I worry about the possible ramifications if my attraction to her is unrequited. It would make it insanely awkward everytime I hung out with him, especially if she happened to be there.
My question is, do I just attempt to talk to her (it’s a bit of a hassle to do so, given that I have no other reason to go to that part of town aside from visiting her and she probably knows that), or do I ignore everything and hope that she either lets me know one way or another?
I don’t want her to think that she was just another girl I met at a frat party or that I am such a loser as to not talk to her. Ugh.
Anyway, sorry for dragging this out. If you have any advice (other than not drink when I’m trying to impress girls), please feel free to give it!