I hope someone can give me some advice. I’m in the middle of a bizarre situation. My girlfriend came over to my apt today. She hadn’t visited in a couple of days. Anyway, things were going pretty good. We were watching a show on tv, and at one point something weird happened and I was pointing it out, but she was oblivious to it I guess and was singing a song. Anyway, I guess I got a bit upset there.
Then later I was trying to put something in the microwave, and she kept coming really close, so I just said one second, I gotta get this, but she kept coming closer and closer, so eventually I told her to stop it. I guess I wasn’t the nicest after a while.
Anyway, once I did that, she got really pissy and upset. She stopped talking and seemed really grouchy. I explained that I just didn’t want her that close at the moment, but she wouldn’t move away even when I kept asking.
Anyway, she kept being mad, and then she said I was mean to her the whole time she was there. I definitely wasn’t. I only remember those two small incidents. Other than that, we were watching shows and I even spent a pretty long time talking to her, without distraction, about stuff that happened at work.
She kept saying how terrible I am for treating her like that after not seeing her for a couple of days. I apologized, but it seemed the more I apologized the pissier she got. It’s hard to explain, but I find it really annoying when she is like that.
I kept asking her the problem and she just kept saying “whatever” and just acting really mad.
Eventually she again announced how annoyed she is at me, and said she’s leaving. I was also mad because it just seemed to come out of nowhere and that she was only interested in painting me in a bad light. Nothing I did helped.
I went out of my room after about 10 minutes and she was on the couch, just sitting there, feeling bad for herself. I tried to talk to her and ask what was going on, and she maintained her super annoyed and pissy attitude.
I guess I just find it really frustrating. I find it hard to talk to her when she’s like this without getting angry. It’s just so difficult. She’s all mad and pissy and upset, but she won’t tell me why. She just says general things like how bad I am, and how poorly I’m treating her and wondering if I even love her.
Can someone please help?