well this was last year, but i cheated on her with her sister and i regret it so much.
It wasn’t intentional…but it happend. she forgave me (so she said) and we moved on.
now she lives in a seperate house on same property as her mother so do see her sis sometimes and i know thats harder for her have the memory of the event…you know?
Ever since that cheat incident happend, her sis tries to break us up all the time.
but of course, rather believe her than me. last month she tells my GF i gave her a poem i wrote about her. so angry! knew it was kind of odd i couldnt find my notebook last month.
i just cant believe that she rather believe her over me. now im not saying im more importan coz were not married but still. then she says i talk to other girls. false acusations!! no proof of any femalws i associate with at all that i have established relationships. with my GF everyday. she has my passwords for emails and other websites. she even told me before i moved out that she WAITING our relationship to fail :eek:
maybe she needs a lil faith like me?
does believe in GOD but her previous exp with parents church made her stop going?? :shrug:
Well, she may not forgive you. The only thing that can rebuild trust and respect are your actions.
An unemployed boyfriend with a suspended driver’s license isn’t exactly appealing nor does it speak well of your character.
You have a child out of wedlock, so clearly neither of you have not been living a Catholic lifestyle.
So, I agree with her-- there’s a lot about YOU that you need to work on. Get right with God by going to Confession and making a firm committment to avoid immoral behavior. Get a job and deal with whatever situation landed you without a driver’s license.
Start making better choices and show her that you are husband material. That won’t happen overnight.
i know. been trying to get back on track but it is hard for me.
GOD has always been there for me. kind of drifted away from his last year
i really do want to go confession. makes me feel better.
i know i know. we should have gotten married first.
got enough of that from my church friends. :o