Sometimes causes are hurt more by extremist who can’t see that how they deliver their message is as important as what that message is.
I understand your passion and your zeal, but this might not be the right medium. Have you considered something like using dolls that can be distributed? This was done at a local teen convention recently, and the current group of “progressive” parents had a fit when their daughters all came home saying “Look, Mom!! This is what my baby would look like by the time its ten weeks old! Isn’t it adorable?” They raised all kind of noise in the newspapers, but at the end of the day, those girls had hours of carrying around their doll that showed what “their” baby would look like.