If you have then you’ll know how unpleasant it is! I am coming here for advice from people who have experience, because this is just embarrasing and stupid and there’s nothing I can do about it. >:(
Ok so I’ve known this girl since we were kids. I forgot her for a long time. But now she has a baby daughter with my name…well no my nickname. And she doesn’t really care that she took my name…now I know it’s none of my business, and I should be nice to her and supportive about the baby…yes I should be mature enough not to care-AND to be nice to her, but I haven’t been at all. In retrospect I have been absolutely horrible. At this point in time I know I should just forget her, but I can’t forget her. I still think about her all the time. Now this is ridiculous because any attempt to befriend her could result only in my deep embarrassment and loss of dignity. So it’s a problem, how to forget her…And even though I know how futile it is, I still wish I could solve the mystery of just why I can’t get on with her. But I’m not mature enough to understand it yet…maybe someday.There’s something about this person that I just can’t get on with her. And she can’t stand me either!And it hurts that she took my name because I know she is a good mother and she doesn’t love me like her baby! Even though I should forget her, I wish that she did. ANNOYING.
Well that’s my story. Share your own stories and advice…it has to be the most annoying thing in the world-when you know that both of you are very beautiful souls, but for some reason you just CAN ***NOT ***get on together. :mad: