does scandal need to involve some sort of sin?
how would you be showing that something is wrong if you’re not doing anything wrong yourself?
for example, you have a roommate of the opposite sex. that in itself is not really wrong if you’re just living in the same house. even Jesus stayed with mary and Martha, didn’t he?
or even if a couple is living together chastely? occasion of sin is a different matter, but why should people assume you’re doing anything when you may not be?
i’m still a bit confused by this issue. people have assumed all kinds of things about me in the past and I haven’t even come close to doing these things. I simply talk to a guy and next thing I know, rumors are flying around everywhere