Hello, and God Bless you all!
My name is Rob and I was married to an amazing woman 2 months ago. We were both virgins upon marrying.
I have some questions about our marital relations:
Obviously being virgins and not very skilled, our first few times were awkward and it only really got better for me. She has a very high sex drive but is unfulfilled by out acts, never reaching climax from the act itself. Is it moral for me to manually pleasure her to climax?
I asked a very good friend of mine who is also Catholic and is slightly older. He is much like an older brother and I absolutely trust him with delicate topics like this since I would feel very awkward discussing it with my Dad. He suggested that I ask my wife to “touch herself how she wants to be touched.” The way he phrased it I dont think he meant that she was supposed to bring herself to a climax, just that I was supposed to watch her to see what she liked incase she couldnt describe it verbally and then take over. Is this moral if it leads to the marital act and I finish the proper way?
She has recently taken a liking to being "on top."
I have heard that this is sinful, is it? I thought the man was supposed to be on top, with the woman submitting.
Sorry for TMI I dont know how else to ask