Please help, as I am about to be sorely tempted. There is this girl who is a friend of my family who I am … fond of. I try desperately to not lust after her, but sometimes I find myself leering at her, to my embarrassment and shame. Next october me and my family are going away on holiday with her and her family. Since there is a pool in our villa and not much else to do, i have a horrible feeling that we will be spending a lot of time there and that, because of this, I will be spending a lot of time around her when she is wearing a probably very revealing swimsuit. I am worried that in this situation the temptation to lust / leer at her would be overpowering. I cannot get out of the holiday and it would be strange if I stayed away from her all the time we were away, but I am worried that if I am around her in these conditions I will sin.