My fiance and I are going to our first NFP class this coming Thursday. We are looking forward to going to the classes, but now I keep getting mixed messages when I try to read up on it online. On one hand I read where it is healthy, with God’s wishes, and strengthens the marriage relationship. On the other, I read where the husband or wife feels neglected due to lack for physical intimacy due to the periods of abstinance. My current take is that it will improve our relationship, and that the periods of abstinance are healthy and good for us to sacrifice that deep urge for Him. I would like to hear some opinions of people who currently use any form of NFP. All your help is greatly appreciated.