Hi. I lived in Brooklyn a long time ago, but Bay Ridge was one of my favorite places. Lots of shopping, all kinds of interesting restaurants. I lived in Bensonhurst which is about 15 blocks east of Bay Ridge. I went to St. Mary Mother of Jesus, and I liked it a lot, but that was over 20 years ago. St. Finbar was a nice parish too. They had a homeless shelter and soup kitchen back in the 1980s. Things are different all over now, but I hope you like Brooklyn. It's not like any other place I've ever been. Our Lady of the Angels sure looks beautiful. I'd been to Our Lady of Guadaloupe a couple times, and that's a beautiful church too. I think you just need to go to a few Masses at each and see which one suits you best.
You've probably already looked at the diocesean website, but here's a link to it with a map of the Bay Ridge parishes.