I am a catholic and happy to be joining this forum. I am trying to find out How to talk to the younger generation about what Love is all about. The younger generation seem to be selfish, and have wants only for themselves, and want to use the other partner for thier wants and needs, and if they do not get it, they devorce. I don’t believe this is Love its greed and selfcenteredness. Meanwhile the children who are destroyed mentally and emotionally they do not care about their feeling. The focus is all about them. They just think the children will be fine. as they go on ,and try to find happpiness for themselves. They think they have been cheated somewhere in life. Meanwhile the children are torn from their homes and friends, their schools, and home, Just so one of them can be happy.
I am talking to many that have devorced.
I have been married 45 years. I I believe you have to focus and show love to the other person, and to each other, before thinking about yourself, and then it will all fall into place. If each does this it should be a good marriage. but if not both, then one needs to be smarter than the other , and give love, and hope things will be happy, with the guidence of the Holy. Spirit. If anger , greed and selfishness resentment is their, then the devil is at work to bring this family down. How do you talk to the younger generation. They will not listen to anything that you want to tell them asking them to go to God for help. I have a situation with my son, and his wife. Beautiful couple, 2 beautiful children, 10 & 13., have great jobs, lovely home. Then wife started running around, coming home 4 morning, My son getting worried and angry about it. She says she just wants to go out and dance, she is not doing anything for him to accept it.
He starts talking to the devorcee neighbor, about his problems, because he is woried about her not wanting to be with him or t he boys. She throws him out because of the texting to the neighbor. He is now with me for 1 month. Going back and forth to his home with the boys. I cannot get threw to him to go home and show love and campassion with her , and love to the boys. Try to fix what is hurting her .
How do you talk to them before it goes into devorce.
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