Challenge her on that. Have her prove that she trusts the HS. It’s like when James challenges the person who says they have faith. Where’s the proof?
Here’s just one example of trusting the HS
Does she go to mass faithfully, receive the Eucharist faithfully? That’s a command
Heb 10:25-29 is about the mass on Sunday (the day) CCC 2178
This is why deliberately missing mass on Sundays and holy days is a mortal sin?
Heb 10: (all emphasis mine)
23 Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful; 24 and let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, 25 not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near. 26 For if we **sin deliberatelyafter receiving the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, 27* but a fearful prospect of judgment, and a fury of fire which will consume the adversaries. 28* A man who has violated the law of Moses dies without mercy at the testimony of two or three witnesses. 29* How much worse punishment do you think will be deserved by the man who has spurned the Son of God, and profaned the blood of the covenant by which he was sanctified, and outraged the Spirit of grace?
after receiving the knowledge of the truth
*]deliberately missing mass on Sunday, is already a very serious sin worthy of judgment, and a fury of fire which will consume the adversaries
*]because there is no sacrifice for sins as a result of one deliberately missing mass.
*]It is a profaning of the blood of the covenant for deliberately missing mass
*]It spurns the son of God and outrages the spirit of grace for deliberately missing mass
One will ask, where does one get all that, and why does missing mass do all that?
*]the sacrifice for sin and blood of the covenant refers to the Eucharist. The summit of our faith.
*]Matthew 26:26-28. This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins.Jesus the son of God said those words instituting the Eucharist the night before He died… Jesus further describes the importance of the Eucharist for the soul.
*]Jn 6:53 unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you. 54 Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise them up at the last day. Life of the soul is grace in the Eucharist.
[/LIST]Therefore, the one who after receiving the *knowledge of the truth *deliberately misses the Eucharist on Sunday, says in effect to Jesus, not your will be done but my will be done.
so for them, to recap
*]no sacrifice for sin is left for THEM.
*]they profane the blood of the covenant
*]they spurn the son of God & outrage the spirit of grace
*]judgment awaits them
[/LIST]the consequences for deliberately missing mass i.e. the Eucharist, on Sunday is HUGE, and describes committing a mortal sin. One who dies in mortal sin won’t be going to heaven as this scripture shows
Maybe you could share that with her.