(I also posted this question on the ask an apologist part of the forum to get expert advice, but I figures maybe many of you would already know about this…)
I have a question. If you dont think it is appropriate to put on the forum please let me know. I am friends with a girl who I hope one day to marry. She lives in Russia. I am working on helping her to the States, which will be a big job in itself and a miracle if I could she could even get in the door.
We are in a chaste relationship right now as friends but I would like to start a courting relationship.
Here is the deal, I have either gential warts or gential herpes…either way some kind of skin problem…
I still have not gone to a doctor for it. I am not sure how I got it as I have never had sex, but I think I might have got it some other way.
Anyway, is this an impediment to marriage?
Secondly, how should I bring this up and when is the best time to bring it up to her?
For example, if I wait until the last minute after she comes to America and all, leaving her home, wouldn’t that be dishonest.
But at the same time is it something to bring up now because I am not 100 percent sure I will marry her?
If I end up not marrying her and pursue another relationship with a woman with marriage in mind (which are what I want all of my future relationships to be) what is the right time to bring this up?