This thread is mosty for pius-teenagers and young adult Catholics (under 27;)) who relate to issues like this themselves (and not just watch young people get worse and worse…hehe)
Okay here goes…
I’ve mostly seen a lot of Catholic’s in this forum use ‘thong’:eek: when refering to something evil and horrid … as for the teenagers on Lifeteen.com seem to be a little more understanding.
However, I am seeking a few opinions and good advice.
I am looking to add a thong underwear to my top drawer… with a ratio of 1:8 (little underwear to normal saggy ones).
My mother thinks they’re horrible, immodest, and doesn’t approve.
Now I’m not seeking to merely ‘convince’ her, but seek the truth for the both of us. She says she open to me finding out if they’re
"okay" by church standards.
Okay… so for modesty’s sake… I do not intend showing it to ANYone… as I’m a very shy person like that… and I don’t want it to feel “sexy” or show guys to get them “excited” (this one fits perfectly below my jeans… and I’m not about to try and rank it so high that people see it.). Just want it for a pair of lower jeans… they’re much more comfortable than a wedgie from a bigger underwear.
I think that its WHO you are… and WHY you want to do something questionable. I’ve spoken to a few chastity advocates, and they seem to be okay with this type of underwear for the right reasons… (not showing lines, trying it out, ect…) I try not to wear any low-neck tops, skimpy shirts and make sure at least one half of me is fully covered;)
I liked the person who gave the burka/bikini example some time ago- sanks a lot:)
I might be leaving out somethings - sorry!
But if some could help me with a few reasonable reasons as to whether or not this is “bad” or not, it would be very helpful to my mother and I! I promise we won’t judge you!