What this mom is able to do will depend on her relationship with her ex-husband and the particular custody arrangements in place for their daughter. If she can either persuade her ex-husband of the necessity or has the legal power to do so on her own, she should immediately separate her daughter from the Wiccan relatives’ influence – to the extent of relocating if at all possible. One thing about Wicca that will be to her advantage is that many Wiccans discourage proselytizing others into Wicca, particularly minors. If she is not able to remove her daughter from the Wiccan relatives’ influence, she can at least prevail upon them to abide by their own code of ethics and stop proselytizing her minor daughter. And, if nothing else is possible, she should at least forbid her daughter from engaging in occult practices in her home.
But rather than just forbidding her daughter from engaging in Wicca and seeking to limit the influence of Wiccan relatives in her daughter’s life, this mother should also take positive steps to influence her daughter’s spiritual quest. Since this mother is also on a spiritual quest, she should invite her daughter to explore along with her. Encourage this mother to invite her daughter to Mass with her. If there is a solidly orthodox Catholic retreat house in their area, suggest that they make a retreat together. If you or someone you know is able to give instruction in the Catholic faith, suggest that they consider home study of the Catholic faith. If the daughter is resistant, her mom should assure her that she can make her objections to Christianity known, so long as she does so in a polite manner and is willing to listen attentively to responses.
The point is that your friend should be careful not to turn over her daughter’s spiritual formation to pagans, either overtly or passively. If she is concerned about her daughter’s spiritual welfare, then she needs to demonstrate that concern by taking positive steps to influence her daughter’s spiritual journey. For more information, I recommend that she consult with the Pastoral Solutions Institute, a Catholic counseling apostolate.
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