I am wanting to start rcia this fall. My husband is divorced and I know that his first marriage will have to be annulled, for me to join the church. What can I say to him that will help him understand. I do not believe at this time that he will want to do this. He is not interested in becoming catholic, however I love the church and feel called. I feel very sad that I would not be able to convert. I am no longer a protestant in my heart.