I know the teachings about SSA and homosexuality from the Church. I’m pretty wary about it…This has been going on for some time. This girl keeps on texting and calling me. She’s a Catholic, a servant in the Church. She’s been giving me suggestive acts that she’s gay. She joked one time if I could have a relationship with her. I still befriended her. She keeps on giving me this attention until one time I confronted her. She did not admit anything I was planning to teach her the Catechism the but got on hold because I respected her silence.
So I decided I would not anymore get involve with her…
First, if she’s really gay I would provoke her inclinations and if she’s not then I don’t see the necessity of the friendship though because
Second, she has a great ministry, she has a great set of family and catholic friends
(although If she did have some serious family issues or problems I wouldn’t resort to this)
I havent seen her for a long time. Last week she called and texted me. I didn’t reply. Yesterday I saw her at the Church and she looked longingly at me again. We talked a little then she remarked that she felt bad I’m not giving her time.I feel guilty distancing myself from her. Did I do something bad against her? I mean I want to be chaste and obey God but I’m not really comfortable with the attention she’s giving me. I’m afraid if I did entertain her again this would provoke the stuff.
Pope Francis says who am I to judge? but then how must I really act on situations like this one?