Please read my story: forums.catholic.com/showthread.php?t=394687
I was in your situation and I resorted to lust. The result was DISASTER even after I was married, not once but twice. Please, please, please read what can happen if you follow the dark path. Don’t go through what I did.
I also have some positive tips on my thread on how to stop the vicious cycle of lust.
Something else you need to realize, marriage is a vocation. That means that GOD himself will send you your wife when you are ready - assuming God is calling you to marriage at all. If you try to force it you will end up in misery.
But you have to cooperate with His grace. Here are some tips.
Because you are single, you have time. Go to daily mass and spend an hour each day praying before the Blessed Sacrament. Go to weekly confession. Im serious about that kind of time investment - this is no joke. Not only will these things help with lust, but it will help with you finding your vocation. Who knows, mabye God is calling you to the priesthood or religious life instead! Scare of that? Don’t be - anyone who follows God’s will is deeply and profoundly happy.
So, when you pray before the Blessed Sacrament, do not ask for God to give you a wife. Ask instead that God reveal your vocation to you. Ask fervently. Ask often. Ask in the name of Jesus Christ. Keep asking until God reveals it to you. Get closer to God and stay there. God will reveal your vocation to you in goodly thoughts and impulses.
Also speak to a priest in his capacity as spiritual director.
IF you discern, after all of this, then I recommend the following:
Catholic singles groups.
Church functions of all kinds.
Avoid secular means for meeting women. You must find a woman who loves God first and you second, and who is Catholic. If you love God first and her second, then the vocation between you will result in true happiness. NOT BECAUSE OF ROMANCE, but because you are following God’s plan for life.
God is the source of peace and happiness. Never forget that.
Hope this helps! God Bless,