There are certain sins in order to receive the right council and illuminate the priest, so that he may know whether it IS a sin or not, needs to go into more detail other than a quick confession. I’m not talking about excrutiating details here… but more detail than what would normally be required, let’s say than someone confessing the sin of self gratification, (not my problem)
How does one deal with these sins without hurting our priest? Marital relations are sometimes complicated due to having another person involved in the act, and in order to get a good council, I’d need to go into a little more detail to know whether if something is actually sinful or not.
My biggest worry is not embarrassment, it is that I don’t want to lead our priest into the occassion of sin due to me. I worry about the sensibilities of the priest. I understand that most priests forget about what was confessed afterwards, it’s a great grace that they have, but I also know that the danger is still there for them since the confession would be more detailed.