I am in visit to my parents and they are very upset on my sister. First because she is a lesbian and they can't acept the situation and secondly because she doesn't come to visit and she doesn't treat them respectfuly. My father wants to cut her from his wil and put me as the whole owner of his house and all his posesions after his death. I do not want this, i want to honestly split everything with my sister. I was even thinking to say like him and after that manage everything with my sister. But my father was speaking about preparing a testament with his lawyers and making sure she wil get nothing. He is teling me that is his wish that none of his money or posesions goes into the hands of the girlfriend of my sister. And says that i can give her money only if she becomes a normal woman and gets maried with a boy. My father is also angry because when my grandfather died she didn't come to the funeral but she caled to ask about his apartment 2 days after the funeral. He told her that until i die you wil get nothing.
Now i am like betwen the hamer and the nail. What is sin in this situation. If i listen to my father that i will destroy my reltion with my sister. If i listen to my sister i wil disrespect the wish of my father.
Now they are still young and healthy but this situation is already creating tension in the family. I stayed with my parents for 10 days and the sujbect of my sister is the only thing he is talking about. Never he says she wil get anything from me unles she becomes again normal. This for me is very stresful because i love them both.