How do you gain/earn the trust of a girl?


#1

One thing I've found is to truly care about her, and it takes time.


#2

Say what you mean, and mean what you say.

And welcome to the forums! :slight_smile:


#3

Do you intend to court this girl? If so, you chase her until she catches you.


#4

Find out what your values in life are, and honor them.


#5

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Do you intend to court this girl? If so, you chase her until she catches you.

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Hey, I thought that only women do that to men? :D


#6

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#7

Is there more background that is pertinent to the situation?

Some women trust more easily than others. Some women have found their trust broken by a man in the past, sometimes something very deep-seated, like an untrustworthy or unreliable father. Some women may have other emotional difficulties. In a case like that, there may be nothing you can really do to earn trust, and it's not your fault.


#8

Thank you for the responses so far. Let’s say the woman in question is shy and introverted. I’m not aware of anything in her past that would cause her difficulty in trusting men.


#9

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