This is basically covered by what a couple of other posters have already stated (along the same lines of a bank withdrawal where the person is giving but you are not seeing it… My husband and I will sometimes attend Mass on both Saturday evening and Sunday morning. But we only drop the envelope in the basket once! So if you were looking at my husband and I, thinking bad things about us for not giving, you would be very, very wrong. :tsktsk:
1"Be careful not to do your ‘acts of righteousness’ before men, to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven.
2"So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full. 3But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.
Yes, we should all give however we can (time, money, prayers especially), but when you go to Church stop watching what over people do and mind your business.