I like to meet people and make new friends. However, i have noticed how tricky it is to be friends with girls. Many times, i noticed that when i try to be friendly, or look like i am building a long term friendship the way i would to a guy, a girl become suspicious of my intentions and things get awkward. I have come to realize that i should have some kind of protocol to apply to girls so things are clear from the beginning and along the way.
it is good to have friend and never to loose friends. Hower, how to build a good protocol of communication so that things between me and girls don’t get blurry and confusing.
The reason of course things get confusing is because I am single. Friendship between me and an other single girls seem to require some sort of introductory stage where we have to determine our principles in boy-girl friendship, whether i like her to marry her, or whether we are completely incompatible and no thought of dating should cross our mind… It seems that between two single persons of opposite sex, the devil will try to plant confusion as long as there are dark spots between their relations.
So my question is how to avoid those dark spot and build a friendship in the light, clarity and peace?