I am hoping to get some advice on how to talk to my husband. He thinks he is always right and never wants to listen to anyone. Tonight several friends of his came over and they all ate and had some drinks and had a good time. Well most were tired by 11 and wanted to go home, but my husband wanted them to go out with him to a bar (it takes an hour to get there). Well, he didn’t tell me that and here I was and had 2 drinks and I don’t like to drink and drive (although I would have been under the limit by that time), and my DH and his friends that wanted to go with him (2) were pretty drunk. I mean, I won’t go into it, but it was getting bad and embarassing. Also, there was bad weather expected. It is raining and they expect it may imediately freeze into ice, and I don’t really want to drive with my 2 year old to the bar so DH can dance for an hour. Finally this argument gets through to them (those that want to go there) and they all leave and my DH is sick now. I mean, I am sick of not having him listen and then I get blamed - say it doesn’t freee over, then I am a controling worry wart ruining his good time and he “takes chances”.
It’s getting rediculious. He’s not God and he is not always right as much as he thinks he is. What’s your advice?