I have a friend who is a "cradle catholic", but does not go to church very often, and lately has been having many problems in her life and tuned to me for advice.
So when I mentioned to her about God, praying to him and going to church, she said that she is "mad at God", because He took her dad this past February. Her dad became very ill, and se prayed a lot for him to get his health back, but when he died, she felt as if God did not listened to her prayers, and she got very upset and blamed God for everything, and she has not gone back to church, nor spoken with God since then.
What do I say to her?
I know that everything happens for a reason, and that God allows this things only to bring a greater good out of them, but how do I make her see that, after what happened with her dad?