This is something I kind of struggle with. I try to pray the rosary everyday, but sometimes I miss a day here and there and will pray the chaplet instead since its a little shorter. Does it really matter? I am curious if there is any special reasons or indications as to when one should be prayed over the other? I always list my intentions (who and what I am praying for) at the end of the rosary or chaplet. Any advice? I am curious to hear what others think about this? Thanks!
It’s all good.
The rosary and the chaplet are both private devotions. They are both great prayers, but we should guard against approaching them in an overly scrupulous way (as though it were a sin to miss a day).
Certainly, it is good to guard against laxity. We don’t want to shirk off our prayers out of laziness. But there’s no rule that you absolutely must say some specific set of prayers every day (unless you are a religious praying the Liturgy of the Hours ;)).
I know it was tough for me to strike a balance. There are so many wonderful, rich Catholic devotions. And once I start one, I feel guilty ever stopping it. :o But it can quickly get out of hand with praying rosaries, chaplets, novenas, litanies, and on and on. My new approach is to rotate certain devotions in and out… The important thing is to be praying, not to run through a checklist of specific prayers.
the only way to “do it wrong” is to pray because we think it’s a race.
We pray for the love of God.
But either way all prayers are good. Even the ones we pray when our minds are not totally attentive. I think of those prayers like a bouquet of flowers with some weeds and dirt clumps that a child brings into its mother.
I like to thank that for us when we pray imperfect prayers our Heavenly Mother takes them, picks out the weeds, shakes off the dirt and puts them in a beautiful vase suitable to be set on the table before the King!
Just pray unceasingly