Have you tried to work with your bishop? How open are they to meeting the regular Joe of the diocese?
The Venerable Archbishop Sheen once asked,
Who is going to save our Church? Not our bishops, not our priests and religious. It is up to you, the people. You have the minds, the eyes, and the ears to save the Church. Your mission is to see that your priests act like priests, your bishops act like bishops, and your religious act like religious.