Obviously through prayer, but is their anyway to get a definite sign. My issue is that since this past december I started to seriously feel that maybe I had a calling. While I haven’t made any definite steps yet (I have a whole host of issues that I want to sort out and I know I need to talk to a vocation director in my diocese) I still feel like it might be where i’m called.
Here is the big issue though. I have been talking with a wonderful woman and we just had our first “date” and its a little difficult to date since she lives 2 hours away. The thing is she is a wonderful woman and while I’m not head over heels, I do like her in a sense and could see myself being with her. I still feel this kind of call to at least try and see if I would be eligible for the priesthood (as of right now I still have debt and I also am receiving counseling for anxiety, and I know that might be an impediment)
I guess I just don’t know what God wants. I’m starting to pray a rosary for vocations again and hoping to talk with my spiritual director soon. Any tips? Also am I wrong in wanting to date this girl even if I’m thinking I have a calling to the priesthood? I mean I’m not committed or anything. I’m just discerning