So my husband who is also catholic walked out on our son and i 4 years ago and never returned. He has a korean mistress now ever since he left for SK for military in 2015 and he just returned to the united states a few months ago. His family im not all for sure if they practice catholic still but his oldest sister is now friends with the korean mistress he met while overseas which i just found out and just doing a lot of poor choices. His parents even helped cover it up. Then finding out from friends hes told he has no faith in God anymore or the catholic church and lies to his parents that he still does but doesn’t.
How do i deal with this, as i made a vow and divorce was never on my agenda as i married in-front of God. My husband now wants one and never ended up filing since he left us. Our son hasn’t seen his father since he was born and we’ve been married for almost 7 years. I am in need of huge prayers and not sure what else i can do. I dont want any hate or vengeance , i am trying to forgive. It is hard and not easy but i continue to do daily prayer.
Not sure if i should go talk to my church. I haven’t told anyone except my close family like as in parents and close friends know. Otherwise nobody else knows. It seems like this kind of stuff is happening more and more now a days in 2020. Marriage is beautiful with the Lord in it. Divorces makes me very sad.
Sorry for the long post but thank you!