You might apply for an annulment of your marriage. You are still married to him. Pray with us for you, God may have something special for you now that you are alone. Check with you Pastor, keep close to your church. Jesus loves you. You children may need counciling too.
This is a good time to help you kids understand the difference between unconditional love and lust of the body
Forgive - Forgiveness is a wonderful way to release the past and to love unconditionally. Drawing a line behind you, you can free yourself of limitations and be at peace with the process of life. Move forward to new beginnings.
Meditate - sit quietly, breath deeply, visualize your heart as a blazing orb of light
:)Be still in any moment of confusion, fear or anxiousness and focus on your breath. In the stillness comes the solution
Look into a mirror and see yourself as for the first time and say, “I love myself Unconditionally.”
Journal - write out your feelings to better help yourself understand who you think you are and how you really view yourself.