My bf and I have been together for around a year and a half now. It's a serious relationship, and we spend a fair amount of time together and with each other's families. For the most part we all get along great. He loves my family; they love him. His family gets on great with me, and I adore all of them; except one of his brothers.
Lately, it is to a point where I don't even want to see him or be around him at all. The thing is, I haven't said anything about it to my boyfriend. I feel as though I am entitled to my opinions and feelings, but at the same time I would never want my boyfriend to feel like I am asking him to feel the same way I do.
I don't want him to spend less time with his brother, and I would never refuse to go to a family function or anything like that just because his brother will be there.
BUT, I really don't want to visit with him at his apartment, because he and his brother live together, and I really don't want to invite his brother along when we have cook-outs and things at my place, or do things with my family.
I realize this isn't the most charitable attitude, but I'm really not sure how to change how I feel. I have been praying over this, but am still at a loss. Should I discuss this with my boyfriend? How would I even approach the conversation in a way that would be appropriate?
Or am I just completely selfish?