that helps, there are few things more stressful than being out of work. if you can get to the point where the two of you can live on one paycheck, and save the other one, you will be building the foundation for financial well-being in your marriage. Also, start contributing to your local church and to charity, even a small amount as long as it is regular and consistent, and comes first, before other commitments. That is to help you learn that the job, the money, all gifts are from God and belong to Him. God bless you. All work is noble and a means of praising God if done for his honor and glory.