I don’t know how to control myself! I understand that they are only children, but some kids are such brats! I feel much anger when I see another child being mean to my kids! My kids are very friendly and other children can be so mean at times. Of course, I hate it, too, when mine act like brats! It is absolutely unacceptable behavior at my house.
I began to go to the gym and they have a little daycare for children and I take mine there, however, there are children from ages 6mos to 11 years and today I saw some little girl being a plain brat ( she must have been around 6). My oldest (3 years old) was telling them good bye and they just ignored him! I can see the differences in character and personality. These kids parents don’t teach them manners! I guess they take for granted that their children can already learn manners. For that reason they grow up into being such brats and society dislikes them!
Anyhow, as we were leaving, another little girl approached my 2 year old son and began to make remarks about his wet pants! He peed his pants, but it was totally mean of her to be saying what she was saying! “Yuck, he peed his pants…this and that…” I felt that I already disliked this little child! She must have been about 6 or 7 years old!
I guess the bottomline here is that it hurts for other people to be mean to your children. I don’t know how to take it. I know I was discreet in showing my feelings. I did not tell anything to the little girl, but I was about to tell her “I am sure you peed your pants, too, when you were 2 years old atleast once!” OR “that’s mean!”… but I held back and pretended to just ignored her remarks…maybe I should have told her, maybe I did good in not telling her anything. The girl in charge there, did notice and told her to be nice, that he was little and that is why he wet his pants.
Oh well, thanks for letting me vent…:shrug:
I really hate feeling this way…