I just can help it! Last night we celebrated my bday at home and he decided to bring his musical instruments. I told him that it would be few people coming and he still insisted. Aside from that, the music he plays is not appealing to any of the guest. That just made me so upset.
What made me more upset was that my eldest son (almost 4) wanted to sing karaoke (he brought a friend with a karaoke system) and he would not let him. My son kept coming to my DH telling him that grandpa did not let him sing. I mean, come one! It’s not like my son was going to ruin the show! On the contrary, I think that people would be interested in watching my son sing, since the music was already boring to everyone to begin with!
My father’s childish behavior I just can’t seem to stand. I don’t like being around him anymore. I also hate the fact that he makes false accusations. He will tell you that you did something when you, in fact, did not. I also hate his sarcasm! It can really get out of hand!
I don’t know how many of you dislike being around your fathers, but I am sure am one of them. I am sure you all might have different reasons and this is mine.
I don’t hate him, I simply dislike him. It turns my stomach around whenever he is around, specially if other people are around because I don’t want to be going through the embarrassment…:o
I hate feeling like this, but that’s how it is…:shrug:
I still feel the shakiness from last night. I can’t beleive my bday celebration turned this way…
By the way, I feel sorry for my sweet Mother who has to deal with him every day every moment…