[quote="Trishie, post:3, topic:244517"]
I had the same thought. Please don't give up as if she is in fact ending things and he is being difficile about it, any negativity from you may unbalance things. Please be pleasant, warm, and kind, and give your wife hope that you are good to be with, as this is an emotional time for her also. She needs to feel you are thee better choice, especially if the other man is doing his best to keep her hooked and using emotional pressure. She may need the help of your loving attention ad your positive attitude, your warmth, to help her overcome the loss. If a friend had died you would be sensitive to her loss, and there is a loss here.
I feel for you. It's a hard thing to handle.
may God give you all the wisdom, love, and strength you need. Her also
I have done everything I can do to make her stay, but she says she has no love for me and this new man she totally is the one. We are married 25 years and still have an 11 and 13 boys at home. I feel I don't have any options left but to let her go. She wants an annullment, but that won't happen. She has the choice to live with me and work things out, or go live in mortal sin with this man. She is aware of this and she can't have both. What about the boys. They need to be taken care of as well. I am doing that as much as I can right now. The Retrouvaulle counselor from the weekend is having coffee with my wife to try and reason with her. This lady has the same background.
I am getting stronger everyday since my nervous breakdown. I just hope God gives me the courage and strength when I need it. I have already talk to a divorce lawyer.I HATE this situation so much since I love my wife so much this just cuts to my heart.