I decided to travel to another part of the country to visit my brother and his wife. just want some advice. obviously I'm just a visitor to their household, I know that. I'm the Godfather of their baby, and uncle. anyway, the mom... well... she seems kinda lazy.
their baby girl is nearly perfect as far as babies go. she's now 7 months old. since she was about 3 weeks old, she has slept consistently without waking up at night from around 9pm to 7am. she would also nap reguarly etc. she still does
anyway, yesterday she got a flu or something. then at night while they were having some drinks, the baby was frantically crying. you could also hear the flu in her voice and stuff. but her mom just kept saying to ignore her. it was really upsetting. especially since the baby NEVER wakes up. that's what the mom said. she said the baby only did this one other time a few months ago.
also yesterday we went grocery shopping, and the baby was sitting in a cart, but it was really oddly shaped, and I kept saying I would carry the baby. the mom refused because she said she doesn't want her daughter to get "used to it". eventually she relented when the baby was really uncomfortable in the cart.
the mom's mother called her and said the baby should see a doctor. the mom got really annoyed at the mother and just got mad at her for trying to make her "worried".
I'm sorry I'm just really annoyed.
I don't know what to do. it seems like if I say anything she'll bite my head off. but it's hard to see stuff happening like that...