Tar, your in my prayers. I can relate a little to what your going thru.We had our marriage convalidated this past July. We had a beautiful simple ceremony with our daughter as the flower girl. My husbands grandparents who were visiting from Florida we able to be there (they were not at our “1st wedding”). It was a such a wonderful day. I just felt like I was on cloud nine.
Four days later my husbands grandparents were in a very bad car accident. His grandpa died a week later and then his grandma who we expected to recover past away 5 weeks later, on my husbands birthday. These 2 wonderful people treated me like their own grandchild from day one. They always introduced me as their grand daughter which sometimes caused some confused looks because his grandma would say “this is my grandson, my grand daughter and thier daughter, my great grand daughter”. Tragedy happends when we least expect it.
When I was getting married at 18 I was looking through my dad’s file cabinet for my birth certificate to get my marriage license. I found paper work referring to my adoption. I was never told I was adopted. You want to talk about shock! My wedding was 2 weeks away. This discussion that went on with my parents after finding out was disastrous. I had to put it in the back of my mind an concentrate on my wedding day.
You are a strong young women and will have a beautiful wedding day. God Bless!