I recently met a guy who goes to the same college as I do and we have gone out on a number of dates over the past two months almost. The thing is, I am hesitating on whether I should continue to pursue a relationship with him. I haven’t yet mentioned this explicitly to him yet, but when I told my close friends, they told me to give it some more time first.
This guy is an amazingly Catholic man living out his faith which is somewhat uncommon for me to see and he definitely likes me, but I’m not sure whether I like him. Logically, it makes complete sense for me to like him and to want this relationship to blossom which I feel is very realistic. However, I haven’t really felt any strong feelings of longing or “chemistry” towards him if that makes sense.
I’m confused as to how to handle this situation. I feel like I should be honest with how I feel (or how I’m lacking to feel really) to not keep giving him false hope. But I also don’t know if I’m just over-thinking this. I’ve been praying, but still feel confused as to how I should handle this.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and God bless.