My husband and I do not have any children yet (working on it though ) Anyway, once a week, my sister’s two older daughters come and spend the night with us. they are homeschooled and they do math and some other things here with me on thursdays. We live in a two bedroom apartment, but the second bedroom is the office and storage room, so the girls sleep on the sofa in the living room. The kitchen is the only thing between them and the bedroom where my husband and I sleep. Our bedroom has a door and we could lock it, but we do not.
A couple of weeks ago, hubby and I had settled in for bed and he wanted, uh you know. I was a little nervous with the girls there, but I am trying to keep him from feeling that having them there will interfear with our relationship. We decided to go ahead and uh :o you know (very quietly and sneekely, though). The next day, my sister and I were having girl talk and somehow I let it slip that my husband and I made love the night before. She got all wierd on me and said she didn’t feel comfortable with the thought of us doing that while her kids were visiting since they are in the living room and could easily walk in on us.
I feel a little auckward now. I don’t want to do anything to upset her, but if it just happens one night where they are here that my husband wants to be with me, is it right of me to deny him because my sister doesn’t want us to? I’ve never had to deal with these kinds of situations before since I don’t have children.
What is the right thing to do? Should I have a talk with my husband about it? I know he’ll totally disagree and it’ll cause tention and I know my sister won’t change her feelings either. I didn’t mean to even say anything to her, somehow the implication came up in the conversation and she made the connection and just went on this long thing about how it’s innappropriate and bla bla bla.
Any advice from some moms out there would be appriciated.