I have been married for 9 years to my Baptist wife. We were married in the church and she had attended RCIA but decided not to convert just before the Easter vigil. When were were dating and after we were married she did not show a strong inclination to go to church with me or to the Baptist church. We moved to a new city and she went through a phase where she was a connoisseur of churches in the area, ultimately not attending any of them. We have three children, all baptized in the Catholic church. I take them to Mass with me and have the older two enrolled in RE classes. We moved again to the city where she was raised and she has shown an interest in going to church again.
Now she insists on taking the kids to church with her and enrolling them in Sunday school. She insists that she has no problem with me raising the kids Catholic, but it would have to be after her church service. To add to the situation, my oldest son has Asbergers and is defiant about going to church with me. My younger children have picked up on this and will also refuse and be difficult on Sunday mornings. My wife now tells them they dont have to go to church with me if they dont want to. She now has talked to our son about baptism in the Baptist church and is pushing him in that direction. This is taking a huge toll on our marriage, any advice would be appreciated.