I have a very good friend who is my total opposite: She is a liberal/atheist (nominally CofE but same thing really). We really enjoy each others company and how passionate we are about our respective worldviews. We argue often but always respect each other. We have a very close bond. She gets on very well with my family and my girlfriend and in fact calls into my granddad occasionally to check up on him.
My girlfriend and I went out for a meal last week and ran into my friend in the pub afterwards (my gf was initially sceptical of my friend but changed her mind after meeting her). Randomly a friend from Church was there too and joined us and we had a lovely evening of chatting/jokes and a few bottles of wine. It turns out they hit it off, and he said to me at vigil tonight they have a date next week.
She enjoys what she calls “sessions” which is basically multiple sexual partners (of both genders) that she hosts in her home. She has some kinky interests that she is very open about.I have also known her to be monogamous with partners in the past. I do not know my friend from Church as well as I do my friend, but he goes up to receive so I presume that means he does not share her tastes. (she is obviously immoral, but is not a bad person).
The question I have is whether to warn my friend from Church so he is prepared and not potentially . . . compromised? Or view this as a potential miracle (and miracle it would be) that my friend wants to have a different kind of relationship to those she has had in the past? Maybe seeing how happy my girlfriend and I are and wanting something similar. . .