[quote="OnlyHeIsHoly, post:1, topic:241068"]
What does scripture say in regards to a child who becomes an adult who is still bothered by the absenteeism of a biological parent who never sought to be be in their lives?
Is the child held responsible by God for creating a relationship with the biological parent?
Why would God ask such a thing of us? That person is a stranger to you, even though there is a biological relationship. Your biological parent was in no way a mother or father to you, nor even a friend.
If you need to work through that hurt and pain, go for counseling about it. You can forgive that person and that would be a form of "honoring" them or at least the role he or she might have played had they chosen to. And IF you feel strong enough, you could perhaps send a friendly card once in a while. But I do not believe you are under any obligation to create a relationship with someone who has wanted no part in your life.
You will be in my prayers.