I’m always hearing how it’s ideal to let children have two parents. even included in another thread of where I was asking about pregnant school teachers
do you guys think that a single parents should give their child up for adoption even if they can provide for them? so they can have two parents?
or if a person realized what they did was wrong and wants to take responsibility for the child, isn’t a biological parent pretty important too?
also I’m hearing a lot of, if the parent keeps the child themselves, it will be a constant proof to everyone of the sin that was committed.
the sin is fornication, which plenty of people do, but only the ones who end up with children get judged harshly for it, even if they have repented and have to live with that shame, just because no one else knows about the sin otherwise
or if the child was put up for adoption, I guess less people would find out
I’m just very confused on the whole subject. I get it, if someone is in a position of moral authority over young impressionable children, it is a problem but even if you’re not, I guess everyone around you is still scandalized.