You’re welcome to discuss my points regardless of your beliefs. I don’t doubt you care for real people. But sometimes love involves not allowing people something they want.
I’m not sure what you mean by “reach” people. If they are doing what they want, falling in and out of love naturally, where is their need to be “reached”, per se?
I’m not sure what you mean by text book. Do you mean the Catechism of the Catholic Church? Wouldn’t the free lovers also be able to write and read books to which they align? At the very least, they certainly produce movies. I guess that counts. What is wrong with living according to the Bible for instance? As a Christian, you probably try to align with that book?