As some of you may know I am a new member here. I joined so I could get advice on my wife's current behavior..."Can Anyone Help Me Get Closer To My Wife?" Anyway of course my wife does no I am here and telling her might cause problems in our delicate situation. (Again I only joined to get some answers to help my marriage.) So my question is...should I keep posting without my spouses knowledge or should I quit? Something about it seems wrong...kind of like I am lying. Any thoughts?