It’s as invasive as the common cold. It is a frequent test or trial for just about everybody. Yes, as Christians we are called on to turn the other cheek, at the same time there is fraternal correction. Sometimes I win, sometimes I lose, lots of factors involved. I am better about such things now. I try to get my point across with humor mostly. An example.
"Can you not do this and that at the same time?
“Well I can sure try and afterwards, maybe I can press your shirts!”
To be sure, I have included many of these exchanges in confession, but I am happy to report there is progress. Really, it is a measure of where I am at that time spiritually. It’s a good barometer. I have even thanked God for the experience at times for the much needed humility. That is how the saints do it and ultimately they, the Saints, and our Lord is who we or at least I, am TRYING to emulate.
A really good topic OP, for a lot of reasons. Thanks!