I’m a 16 year old guy. I recently got interested in dancing, but then I happen to notice that the best dances I do are the effeminate ones, so I sticked to that.
I wouldn’t say sexual in nature but rather just sassy. This has no bearing on sexual orientation, and I only do the effeminate dances to impress, spice up personality a bit, and and sometimes, comedic purposes. So now you understand that there is no sexual intent. Also, I know it is a ticket to being ostracized, but I’ve gained confidence to do so even on-stage.
I have a few girl students (less fortunate ones) in a school program and I’ve decided to teach them some of my moves for a dance performance. Of course, I was careful enough not to get sexual, though some of those moves are sassy-girly in nature. I’ve told my students to act sassy in the dance (but not in real life).
I’m sorry, but I am really tense right now because I have a lot to teach them and their performance is in a few days… yet at the same time, I have strings of doubt with what I’m doing. (And no, don’t say stuff like “Oh, just play safe and make the dances unisex”. I’ve spent hours choreographing… I wanna make sure that I will only start again from scratch if it is totally wrong.)