I care about my sister and i would help her if she needed me. However we were never very close sisters. We are totally different. We care about totally different things, we like different music, foods, movies, how to spend our free time. We have different religious, political views. We even have fights or contradictions about our opinions. She believes that we should care only about our family and the rest of the people around us are unimportant.
Since we were small i had to be the mature one because i was 1 year older and she was allowed to do almost everything. She is very immature. When in high school i stopped her from joining some weird religious cult. In university i stopped a strange relationship with a boy because i discovered she always had bruisers on her neck and face and i was scared he is hurting her. She hated me however in one week the boy had another girl and told my sister that she was not worthy of him anyway. I was driving me insane was that my parents were not listening to me when i was telling them there is something wrong with her they were not listening to me but telling me that she is small.
Lately i realized I am bored when she calls me because i know she will complain about her life or her job or she will tell me she needs money. Sometimes i avoid seeing her or answering her phones. I realized i love more my husband, my friends, my colleagues then her and i feel very bad about this.