My best friend from childhood got engaged after knowing her boyfriend for 1 month (she is 20) she didn’t even know his surname! 6 months later they are still together and they have just got a 100% mortgage for a house at 5 times their joint salary!!! Now HE has decided that they don’t need to get married because they have bought the house! So essentially they have decided to just shak up!
She is from an irish catholic household and her mother is a strong catholic yet she has agreed to this situation and even gone guarantor for their house!
I don’t know how to help my friend because her so-called fiancee has made up his made that they don’t marry but he wants kids as soon as possible!!!
I don’t know if its her problem - she has always been desperate to settle down (she has been ‘engaged’ to every single one of her boyfriends) and now she is settling for a man who doesnt even want to go down the aisle and is prepared to just live with her!!